I give her everything she wants, I make love to her like no one else has {According to her}, I take out time out of my very busy schedule just to make sure I am always there when she needs me but I have this very deep feeling she’s seeing other men.

We don’t touch our phones, we respect each other that way, well she brought the idea and I accepted, I didn’t want it to seem like I didn’t trust her or anything, but I can’t shake this feeling that something is going on and I don’t want to ask her so I don’t offend her.


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I haven’t seen her in weeks, she’s been giving me one excuse after the other, she doesn’t work, she doesn’t school, so what’s taking her time?, if I offer to come see her at her family’s house she would decline, but I have been going there in the past.

Bella please help me, how do I communicate with her, how do I make sure she’s not taking me for a ride, we have been dating for 8 months now and I really love her, I have been hurt so many times and I was hoping she’s my last trial when it comes to love, I want to spend the rest of my life with her but these days I feel there are things she’s not telling me, please help me.


First, I must commend your sacrifice in trying to make your current relationship work with your partner. It’s a good thing to know that there are men out there who put out their best to make their women happy, please don’t relent in such admirable character. But there are few things I would like to tell you.

1. You can’t please someone enough. You stated in your story you provide all that she wants and I feel you are trying too hard to please her and at this point, I believe she needs some space.
2. There are subtle ways to make a woman open up to you when you feel things are becoming vague in your relationship with her. Do not try to play the blame game on her by making her feel bad, else it would only make matters worse. Do not let emotions get you depressed as it is not ideal to depend on feelings. Try to focus your energy on the things that will make you happy apart from love. I strongly believe as you are up with this task, she will realize how much she has missed you and apologize for having taking you for granted.

Sometimes, silence works.
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