How long does it take to ask your significant other where the relationship is headed? Some Men get epiphany during the cause of the relationship and something snaps in them, but women plan way ahead because when they love you, they’re planning a forever together already.

It’s been a while I put original content out there. I miss blogging and vlogging, but you know how the Nigerian Life is, you need to make money to enable your passion.

Recently I saw a complaint online, this was the second of such I had seen in the same week, this young man was angry his girlfriend keeps reminding him of his past, when things weren’t working out for him and how he suffered to make ends meet. His point of focus was he now sees the reason a lot of men don’t end up with the women who stayed with them through thick and thin because of the ‘’see finish syndrome’’.

Man said his longtime girlfriend doesn’t respect him because she knows his past, but there’s a lady he’s started recently talking to now that he’s rich and she gives him all the respect he deserves. This was the point where I started laughing for real while I tried to figure out his complaints.

The truth is I understand where this Youngman was coming from, I know exactly what he means because I have seen this scenario play out, sometimes out of spite other times out of love where in the heat of argument we say vile things to our partners about their past and also in the heat of playfulness we also remind them.

How long does it take to ask your significant other where the relationship is headed? Some Men get epiphany during the cause of the relationship and something snaps in them, but women plan way ahead because when they love you, they’re planning a forever together already.

I think if you survive the first 2 years together and things are looking okay financially, mentally and morally then it’s a good time to have the talk, but if things aren’t looking so great, do you wait or leave?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.

Here’s my YouTube video on this: https://youtu.be/alih2YlNjiQ